The following table is meant to offer a rough overview of the wishes and circumstances of frequent lamâschers, to make judging situations of physical closeness more doable. Still, metacommunication is appreciated and full clarity of the nature of a relationship can only be found in direct face-to-face conversations!

Contents:

Suggestions for categories describing 'Lamâsching Availability':

• 'I love being touched whenever possible'
• 'I like being touched occasionally and appreciate specifically designated lamâsching spaces'
• 'I like cuddling with one person at a time much more than being in a lamâschy group situation'
• 'I can be touched occasionally but don't value lamâsching piles'
• 'I don't want to be touched occasionally but may join lamâsching if I feel like it'
• 'I will always decide case by case'
• 'Please don't touch me, I will approach you if I ever feel the need' 

Table

Person	Lamâsching Availability	Preferred School of Lamâsching	Amorous Status	Sexual Orientation
Janina Abels	I love being touched whenever possible	Janina's School, Joachim's school	poly, in a relationship with Tilmann, motherly mistress of Kaiser Mikato	bisexual
Anja Konhäuser	I love being touched by people I sympathize with	not concentrated on one single school	single	heterosexual tendencies
Zed Redstone	I love touching and affection	Janina's School	single / (separated for three years)
Hans-Christian Eick	I desire touch and affection : )	freestyle pls don't Sadomâsch me too hard, thx.	recently broken up, still a little wounded, I find it hard to come up with the courage to fall in love again, right now	heterosexual, but I like men for everything non-erotic : )
Kaiser Mikato	I love being touched anywhere	Janina's School and Sadomâsching	single, enslaved by Janina Abels	Whatever Janina Abels says
Tilmann	Currently: casual, with focus on well-being and talking	Everything from soft to serious, depending on the mood and consent.	In love with Janina Abels and many others
Joachim Thome	I like being touched most of the time, when i do not like it i make this physically or verbally clear without blaming anyone for the attempt	Joachims school	happily poly, most of the time open for additional long term partnerships and meaningful one night stands
Taïs	enjoy lamâsch most of the time (preferred timeframe 2 to 5pm on Sundays)	no fingers in holes and no pimple scratching please (Bodhi Neiser)	in a very stable, very long-term, very open and very understanding relationship with Bassim
Konrad Becker	touch me if you can	freestyle	single	heterosexual
Axel Kalitzki	out of order	Sadomâsching	married, 5 kids from different woman	bisexual
Cille	I love being touched whenever possible.. And I’m ready to say no thanks if it’s not the right time for me...	Janina's School, Joachim's school	Poly, have lovers here and there..	pansexual
come on, take part!
YOU want to be in this list...^^

History

In August 2016 /wiki/spaces/~inflector/pages/51937282 criticizing the unclear interpersonal relationships in lamâsching circles. It is true, since nobody wears a sign stating their mood, expectations and wishes it can be hard to figure out what is appropriate to do in a given situation. This general issue was already raised in the initial stages of lamâsching culture, without offering a fixed solution. Following the definition lamâsching is "to really, truly, deeply appreciate someone's presence" and also to express this sentiment physically. The amount of time spent on this expression or the intensity of doing so, however, is not specified.

The initial call for participation in this page can be found in this personal article by Janina Abels.