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The initial call for participation in this page can be found in this personal article by Janina Abels.
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The following table is meant to offer a rough overview of the wishes and circumstances of frequent lamâschers, to make judging situations of physical closeness more doable. Still, metacommunication is appreciated and full clarity of the nature of a relationship can only be found in direct face-to-face conversations!
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- 'I love being touched whenever possible'
- 'I like being touched occasionally and appreciate specifically designated lamâsching spaces'
- 'I like cuddling with one person at a time much more than being in a lamâschy group situation'
- 'I can be touched occasionally but don't value lamâsching piles'
- 'I don't want to be touched occasionally but may join lamâsching if I feel like it'
- 'I will always decide case by case'
- 'Please don't touch me, I will approach you if I ever feel the need'
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The preferences stated here are subject to fluid changes due to the open and flexible emotional approach the full incorporation of the yunity mindset encourages. Also, every day and every hour is different: If someone loves to cuddle during the night, (s)he may want to concentrate on work during the day and find lamâsching intermezzos distracting. Assumptions about specific individuals' whishes and circumstances are to be avoided and open communication is to be pursued. |
| Person | Lamâsching Availability | Preferred School of Lamâsching | Amorous Status | |||
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| I love being touched whenever possible | Janina's School | in a very understanding monogamous long-term relationship | ||||
| Anja Konhäuser | I love being touched by people I sympathize with | not concentrated on one single school | single | |||
| Zed Redstone | I love touching and affection | Janina's School | single / (separated for three years) | |||
| Hans-Christian Eick | I desire touch and affection : ) | freestyle? test me | recently broken up, still a little wounded, I draw the line at eroticism for now. | |||
| I love being touched anywhere | Janina's School & freestyle | single, ready for a long-term relationship | ||||
| come on, take part! | ||||||
| YOU want to be in this list...^^ |