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When people first join a lamasching culture, they might be overwhelmed. A gentle introduction might be necessary. It is normal to lamasch only a little bit in the beginning. After a while, people might feel more comfortable and fully join lamasching.
Individuals have differently sized private spheres, which are defined by their past experiences. For example, I've heard that people who were subject to sexual abuse might have a harder time of enjoying body contact. In contrast, people who feel very sure about themselves might be able to enjoy body contact even with total strangers in public.
While lamasching, everybody needs to respect the private sphere of others. It is possible to have closer contact to someone, while only maintaining light lamasching interaction to someone else. This can create a tension of jealousy, which limits the enjoyment of lamasching. Talking and empathy helps to reduce the tension.
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