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It was very convenient for me that we don't have a culture of telling in yunity, when it comes to this kind of things. Traditional relationship categories cannot be taken for granted, so probably nobody knows what actually is actually okay and what is not. Still, I am thankful for the cautiously uttered words of reason from fr4nk 0nf1r3 and Matthias Larisch, because they were totally justified. For the future I think we need more clarity in the group about how to handle complicated love stories. Do we just want to live the 'don't ask, don't tell' policy and let every constellation of people handle their emotional baggage themselves? Do we want to have a totally transparent board of attraction, that could seem quite gossipy? Although... didn't we already start this somehow with the Lamâsching Availability? At least the current situation status of my complicated love story can be found there... 