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- This is not a sexual activity, so don't act like it
- No touching of private/intimate body parts except this is agreed (also be careful/ask before touching head when new people are around you)
- Respect any limits people communicate
- No kissing (except in an agreed area - the founders of the lamasching culture did not see such a school yet)
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Further reading
A very good read is the warmly expressed experience from Tilmann (Lamasching Culture). Afterwards, read about different lamasching schools, try it out and create your own 